Getting the Support I Needed

My husband is my biggest supporter. Whatever has come out of the oven, he has eaten it, whether it was a bomb or not. He encouraged me to cook because he knew many days I was too sad to function. After all, I was sorely missing my active and busy working life. He...

Cooking My Way Through Cancer

After my cancer diagnosis, I could no longer go to work. But I still had so much energy. From having had an active and involved life, remaining in bed for extended periods was hard, and I needed to find an outlet. There were too many emotions swirling in me that I...

Please Stay Away, Your Sick

Isolation was something I was not expecting to accompany a cancer diagnosis. My immune system is non-existent from cancer and cancer treatment. With a shot immune system, I had to tell so many people to “STAY AWAY if you’re sick!” I can’t put...

The Bed Days

After the official diagnosis, I descended into mourning for the life I had lived before. But also, for the life I had envisioned for myself in the future. It’s a long and grueling process.  Before my cancer diagnosis, I was a principal who had been very involved...

The Start of My Acceptance Cycle

My acceptance cycle started with the words “You have cancer.” Those words sent me into days upon days of grieving and crying. I didn’t hear a single thing after those three life-altering words because my mind went straight to “How long do I...